Body Talk & Chocolate-Mint Bliss Bites

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Hi everyone!

Happy Valentine’s Day/Week to you all! I love and honor you and I hope you are doing the same for yourself!
Four years ago, I started making this little holiday a day to celebrate the love for myself. Every day, I focus on loving myself, but this day, four years ago, I stopped smoking cigarettes and I remember telling myself that I was doing it for the love of myself! I was so proud (and I still am)! Each year, I try to do something extra groovy for myself like take a yoga class in a new studio, get a pedicure, go on a date with my hunie, add something healthy into my life, make something extra yummy to share or take my pups somewhere they’ve never been before.This week, I seem to be applying to Graduate school for the love of myself! Weeee! What will you do to show the love?
Another way I show the love for myself daily, is by taking care of my body and maintaining a positive inner dialogue. This leads me into a conversation about the body. I used to be so wrapped up in what people thought about me based on my body and appearance. I was so consumed with these thoughts that they did nothing but paralyze me and cause pain. No matter what I did, I wasn’t good enough and someone was always better than me. I beat myself up with my thoughts because I was stuck in the fear-based ego-state-of-mind and I put my body through the worst things because of it. I would not eat all day long, exercise on top of it, and then eat too much at night. I would over exercise and if I missed a day, I would beat myself up even more. If I did not feel skinny enough or pretty enough, I would not let myself go out in public. I would eat unhealthy things to cope with the feelings and thoughts that were constantly running through my head. I was so self-absorbed and full of fear that I could not truly enjoy the beautiful life that was happening before my eyes. Thankfully, I hit a bottom.
My first step was to recognize and admit that my unhappiness with my body was directly connected to my unloving thoughts about it. I recognized that I was not going to get anywhere healthy if I kept talking to myself in such an awful manner. So, I cut the crap, forgave myself and became my biggest fan. On days that I didn’t like my thighs, I picked out a part that of myself that I did like and I focused on that… All day long, if I had to. Most importantly, I realized that I am not a body; I am a beautiful soul that shines bright, comes from a natural state of love, is granted all the happiness I could possible wish for and any thoughts that do not stem from love are not real. This body is a vessel for me to navigate through this world that I am in.
My second step was to change my internal dialogue by inviting Spirit/God/the Universe in to support me and my thoughts. It was clear that I needed help with this because I had tried and failed too many times on my own. For every unsupportive or unloving thought that popped into my head, I would notice it and invite Spirit in to help reinterpret the conversation or clear away the thoughts. By clearing away the thoughts, I began to create space for love and a groovy new internal dialogue began to manifest itself.
Step three, I started to implement new healthy habits by making little commitments. Thoughts and behaviors go hand-in-hand. When I am thinking in an undeserving way, then I am most likely going to have behaviors that go along with it. Where thoughts go, energy goes. When I had a self-destructive mindset, my behaviors followed suit; I would either deprive myself of food at meal times, overwork my body or fill my body with foods that were not the healthiest choices. Once I became a witness to those negative thoughts, called them out and invited Spirit in, I could then add the healthy behaviors in my life. I started doing things to let my inner glow shine bright! Not only that, I attracted healthy things, as well; Yoga came into my life, healthy people came into my life, I evolved into a vegan and gluten free eater, I knocked off the unsupportive eating habits and behaviors (like smoking!), I started teaching and sharing health tips with others…It was magical and magnetic, and it continues to be! And, whatever weight that I was trying to lose or look I was trying to achieve started to appear. I find that when I align myself spiritually, the weight drops off and everything falls into place. Most of the time in life, I find that all I need to do is forgive myself, shift my thinking into a more loving space and stay connected to the Universe because it always has my back.

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So, along with loving yourself, incorporating healthy behaviors to shine bright and treating yourself during this week of Valentine’s Day, I have a treat for you!

Vegan and gluten free…

Chocolate Mint Bliss Bites

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You will need:
-1 cup of pecans
-1/4 to 1/2 cup of shredded coconut
-2 teaspoons of flax seed
-1/4 cup maple syrup
-1 teaspoon (maybe a little more) peppermint oil
-4-5 medjool dates, pitted (but you can get away without them)
-about 1/2 package of vegan chocolate chips

To prepare:
In a food processor or high speed blender, blend the pecans, first. Then add flax, coconut, peppermint, maple syrup, and dates (optional) and blend together completely. Line a plate with parchment paper. Make balls out of your pecan mixture and press them down a little to flatten like a cookie. Place in the fridge to stiffen up while the chocolate is melted. In a pan, slowly head up a half of a package of chocolate chips. If you turn the temp up any higher, you will burn them. Stir the ch chips whole they melt. When chocolate is almost completely melted, take out the cookies in the fridge and begin to frost them with the chocolate. I found it easiest to dip the one side of the cookie in chocolate, set it on the parchment paper plate chocolate-side down, and the spread frosting on the rest of the cookie with a knife/spoon. The idea is to get the whole cookie covered in chocolate… So, however creative you can get! Then, when all the cookies are lathered in chocolate, stick the plate back in the fridge to let the chocolate harden completely, 30 minutes or so. Then, transfer cookies to a container to store in. Share and enjoy!
Love & Light,
Amanda

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Check your reflection

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Happy Christmas Eve to all you groovy people out there! Sending all my light and love filled thoughts and energy to you!
‘Tis the season to be with family! Fa la la la la la la la la! Since the holidays have a beautiful way of bringing family members and friends together, I felt like I was being called to create a post about it. In my holiday experiences there has always been so much love bouncing around. Along with the comfort and joys seem to come occasional personality conflicts, windy arguments, and natural stress among family members, too. Let’s be honest, it is almost expected to happen at some point with individuals who are so closely connected and comfortable with one another and I hear about many people fearing this part of the holidays the most. How can you possibly stay lit up with Grinch tip-toeing around your tree?!
Well, you do know how much I have been into using positive affirmations lately because I have been writing about them and sharing them with you. I am here to tell you, that even groovier affirmations can be used in those tense holiday moments. I have come to believe that when I am engaging with a friend, my boyfriend, or a family member, that whatever is showing up or transpiring between me and that other individual is for a reason and they are always opportunities for me and that individual; opportunities to have fun, laugh, play, love, forgive, connect, or even heal. If something shows up that I do not like, am afraid of or makes me feel uncomfortable, in the past, I would typically shut down, lash out or turn into a victim and blame that other person for causing me pain. Most likely, it would take me some time to let it go before I even considered moving into forgiveness. This cycle caused me such a great amount of pain that it finally brought me to my knees. Each time I would get angry at someone for their words or actions that I didn’t like, I would get resentful and a resentment does nothing but take energy from me, block my love and dull my glow. So, I had enough and I shifted. I stopped playing the victim, started taking responsibility and the light within me grewer brighter! Instead of lashing outward, I started looking inward and used my flashlight to shine light on the piece that was hurting it so I could give it love and let it go, while also releasing that individual, too. I started asking myself questions like, “What is it within me that feels uncomfortable or afraid over you?” or “What is my reflection trying to show me?” The outside conditions are merely reflections of my inner conditions. I also started to practice saying loving things to myself and to the person in my head, such as, “I love you,” “I forgive you,” “I support you,” “Please forgive me,” and “Thank you.” When I play through these loving thoughts in my mind, energy goes, and love flows. It is like magic and it is oh-so-groovy! With these thoughts running through my head, I find that I am able to love more, play more and be in the moment, which is where I love to be the most during the holidays with my loved ones!

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Today, I have a simple little cookie recipe that I whipped up this week that is tasty, light and sure to raise your holiday vibration!

Vegan & Gluten free….

Cinnamon Apple Oat Cookies

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You will need:
1/4 cup plus 2 tablespoons unsweetened regular apple sauce
1/2 tablespoon plus a sprinkle of cinnamon
1/2 cup glutenfree oats
1/2 cup almonds (ground up in a food processor)
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
Sprinkle of salt
1/4 cup almond butter

To prepare:
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. In a food processor, create almond flour with the almonds by processing them to a fine texture. Then mix all the ingredients up together in a bowl. Line a pan with parchment paper. Form little balls with your batter and place them on your baking sheet and press them down with a spoon to flatten some. Bake for 15 mins, maybe more. Take out of the oven, let cool, share and enjoy!

Love & Light,
Amanda

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