Hi Beauties! Yes, I just called you beautiful…just incase you haven’t acknowledged yourself to be,yet, today. 🙂
Since 2007, I have been on this dazzling path that has dominoed into all kinds of radical shifts of love in my life. I say 2007, because July 3, 2007, was the day that I hit rock bottom physically, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. It was also the day that I decided I was going to unlearn all of the behaviors that no longer served me, one by one, a day at a time, and replace them with things that raised my vibration, filled my heart with love, and dipped my soul in happiness!
Some of those behaviors include telling myself I’m beautiful, along with other love-charged affirmations! At first, it was a really icky feeling, because I didn’t believe it when I told myself I was beautiful or smart or strong. It took a while to get to that place of self-loathing, right? It certainly didn’t happen over night. So, I understood that unlearning these patterns and moving to a place where I felt deserving of the compliments I gave myself would take a little time, too. I trusted in the process (& I still do!), and when self-help books, positive articles, and swanky spiritual gurus told me to look in the mirror and tell myself “I love you,” to take myself out on dates, to invest in crystals that carry special energy (I LOVE rose quartz & it’s healing energy!), to care for my body, to take mini vacations, to meditate, to explore, to hula hoop, to do yoga, to go back to school, to quit smoking, to find awesome girlfriends, to quit drugs and alcohol, to be around animals, to stand on my head, to sing, to cleanse myself in the ocean, to treat myself to a chocolate bar, to buy new clothes, to give myself a hug, to find a guy that treats me well, to help people, to start a blog, to be close to my family, to connect with kids, to build a fort in my living room out of furniture and blankets, to read books, to dance, to be of service, and most importantly, to forgive myself, I did it. I did it over and over and over until compliments to myself didn’t feel so funky and doing things for myself didn’t feel so weird because I now believe that I deserve them. I replaced my old thoughts with new ones and my old behaviors with ones that served me. And most importantly, I still do these things. I am still listening and seeking out people, places, and things that I can get information from to build myself up! Because, you know what, when I build myself up, I am building up others, too, and raising their vibration, and that energy is scattered all over the world, lifting everyone up. And that’s what it’s all about anyway, right?
My eating habits are another behavior that I cultivated and switched around in order to make myself shine brighter! That was not done overnight, either. I started with cutting out things that did not serve me, like soda and fast food and substituting with foods that did serve me, like water and more veggies! I would change around the times in the day I would eat. I changed around what foods I would eat together. I cut out more foods that didn’t work and put in more that did. I listened to my body, and after becoming a plant-based/vegan eater on October 22, 2012, I am still listening to my body! I trust the process and it’s beautiful!
And don’t get me wrong, I am completely one-hundred percent human being and I am reminded constantly. There ARE days when I want to stay mad at myself, put myself down, or eat potato chips, or lay in bed depressed, too. But, I then forgive myself, talk about it with a friend, journal about those moments, ask the Universe to do her thang, and I move through it, like a wave that moves through the ocean.
So, since I just finished talking about food, I’m sure your tummies are a little rumbly and waiting for today’s recipe, eh?
So excited to share this new creation with you guys…
Quinoa Veggie Mash
You will need:
-1 cup of quinoa (2 cups water)
-Butternut squash (I used frozen chunks & then steamed, but whatever you prefer!)
-Beets (I cut up 3 small ones in cubes & then steamed)
-Arugula (or whatever greens leaf that suits your soul!)
Boil your water and cook your quinoa.
Peel, cut up, & steam you veggies (the broccoli I left raw).
Lay a bed of arugula or greens down in a dish. Scoop some quinoa and put it right on the greens. Top off with all your veggies! Mix together!
Drizzle some olive oil & sprinkle some salt (I like the pink Himalayan salt these days… It’s pink & crazy-good benefits).
So much color I can’t stand it! I had this all by itself as a meal and some left over the next day! It would make a great side dish too… Thanksgiving, hmmmm? Feel free to add other veggies if you wish, but I loved this combination!
Light & Love,